Thursday, 27 December 2012

Kinky sex, the in thing on campuses

Bondage, Domination, and Sadism and Masochism (BDSM) seems to be in thing on campuses! Blame it on E L James, varsity youngsters are getting hooked to kinky sex.
Early December, the authorities at Harvard University found that a ­student-run BDSM group is very active on its campus and officially recognized the group. It means freshmen at this Ivy League university can sign up for kinky sex along with about 400 other student groups.
Those who know say that Harvard is not at all the first university to approve such a group. Way back in 1992, Columbia University became the first to have this honor by recognizing Conversio Virium (Latin for “exchange of forces”). Later in 2003, the Iowa State University student body founded Cuffs, a college student group that teaches about bondage and other sexual fetishes, while Vassar College has the Sex Avengers, which holds an annual “Masturbate-a-thon.”
Though it was limited earlier, now after Fifty Shades of Gray is out and sold like hot cakes, mainstreaming of the BDSM subculture has already been accelerated and is spreading fast to more elite institutions of higher learning. According to New York Observer, Columbia has a BDSM group. So do Tufts, MIT, Yale and the University of Chicago. Brown, UPenn and Cornell have hosted BDSM educators for on-campus seminars entitled “The Freedom of Kink” and “Kink for All.” It looks like conservatives who have long viewed the Ivy League a bastion of depravity may have a point after all.
New York Observer says that while the scene’s mantra—“safe, sane and consensual”—is heard so often it might as well be translated into needlepoint, violations of these maxims are common. It is reported that hundreds of students, mostly women, have come forward to describe the abuse they’ve suffered within the scene.
Experts say that BDSM clubs are a good thing as long as this means providing safe spaces for students to explore alternative sexuality, but clear rules on what “consent” means need to be in place.



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